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That'd probably be my recommendation for anyone unless you're going firmer and really modest on size.Given that soft here is medium for many other makers, the risk of being underwhelmed is less likely than the opposite. You'll really like the texture, no matter who you are or how you use it -- you will feel the bumps, and they are really exciting. It feels good just to rub against, and we're not a sensitive couple. So if over-stim is a thing for you (as it is for me) I think you'd like it. If you're just adding a little spice, I think